Tuesday, March 30, 2010

思路决定出路,一线生机迎未来!(旧作)





思路决定出路,一线生机迎未来!
李甜福



在金融海啸冲击下,许多人活得惶惶不可终日,对前景感到灰心失意,突然间好像发现这个世界变了样。在面对不可预知的明天,担忧有用吗?不担忧又可以解决问题吗?怎样的态度,怎样的心态去面对明天呢?

在面对困境时,乱了阵脚,心乱如麻,并不能解决问题,很可能把问题弄的更加糟糕。首先要把稳定思路,稳定心态,稳定那颗“心”,让心不要惶惶不可终日。接下来,就是分析问题,找出方案,寻求比较可行的方法,不要把自己和家庭逼向无路可行,走向死路。

您是否知道,一个点子带来无穷的变化,带来希望,也能开拓更大机会、机运。很多人在生活的煎熬与业务的打拼下,已经麻木,已经生活的“ 颠三倒四 ”,早已经忘记什么是点子,也早已经对点子失去信心。点子可能就是一条生路!

爱迪生的一个点子发明了电灯,为大家带来了世世代代的方便。莱特兄弟和在他们之前便开始研究飞机的无名英雄,实现了人类可以“飞行”的愿望,缩短了地球上地区与地区的距离,对人类的生活带来很大的方便。点子确实是改变人生的重要因素,为不幸者,潦倒者带来新希望的明灯。

重新出发

在人生旅途上,我们难免会遇到许许多多的问题,有些可以解决,但是有些却叫人心烦,头疼好多天,甚至吃睡难安失去了做人的方向与意义。最担忧的还是认为自己已经面对绝境,已经走投无路,那种心情真的是苦不堪言,有有些人便会在心慌意乱,失去对策下,做出傻事,如自杀,或伤害自己及家人。

解决生命前请给自己及家人一个机会

在走投无路的情况时要设法寻求其他能够给予意见者的帮助,不要贸贸然结束自己的宝贵生命。您先列出各种解决方法,不要轻易放弃,同时要能忍耐,面对煎熬,面对寂寞,面对白眼。

每个人都有不同的经验,生活感受,因此,找对人帮助您也很重要。不管怎样,您首先一定要冷静,不要冲动,不要钻牛角尖。

走投无路时,看看过去,看看别人,寻求他人帮助是需要做的事,但千万小心不要被人利用您在慌乱时刻骗取金钱,把您带去“更痛苦”的深渊。有些人是喜欢见到别人比自己悲惨,不喜欢人家欢乐和有幸福的日子。

金融海啸为全球带来巨大的打击,打开报纸看到的都是负面及令人心惊胆跳的新闻。突然间您发现这个世界翻转过来了,两三年前的美好景象,股票、地产、信托基金完全变了样,金融界的顺景大大改观,而充满信心的人们也已不再乐观,到底明天会如何?该如何应对不明朗的前景?

当您面对困境时,一切都是灰暗的,一切都是没有希望,一切都苦不堪言。惊惶失措,怨天尤人肯定不是办法,在这个时候更要点子的协助,寻求适当的解决方案,耐心应对,分析局面;情况不许可时,即使要退一步、三步也要设法进行。记得不要走绝路,那根本解决不到问题。其实,每个人都有不同的问题,也有不同的故事,甘苦自得也好,伤心悲痛也好,普普通通、平平淡淡,生命有其一定的意义,不用在意别人的目光,别人的打压,最重要是自己能够想想办法,寻求解决方案。最坏的打算,便是留得青山在,就可等候时机再重新开始。有生命在,有家人在,可以再开始。走上自杀绝路,什么也没有,那是不对也留下更多的痛苦给尚在人间的家人、孩子,万万不可自杀!

您在悲痛失去高薪,可是您看看在印尼巴厘、泰国勿洞的人民月入马币一百令吉或一千新台币,他们还是一样过日子。他们可以活下去,您也可以活下去。给生活一个机会,给自己一个机会!

经历过经济风暴的人明白:很多时候,看开了,放下了,一切都已经不那么重要了!凡事还是可以重新开始,可能没有过去的大规模,事业没有过去那么风光,但是只要生命在,就可以再来过!记住:天无绝人之路!

保留生命是应对这一波风暴的最基本条件,冷静与忍耐是继续前进的最低要求,点子将是打开新格局,新局面的因素,让点子协助您迈向新高峰,让点子来应对重重困境。点子将是通往新天地的一大秘诀,是一线生机!切记!

在学校读过的故事:王子和手下们所乘搭的船,载满货物及名贵的财物,在航行时面对暴风雨,船只就要无法承受,大家吓得半死。这像我们今天的金融海啸,人人自危,无法前行。 王子决定将一些财物抛弃,不行,再抛弃一些。 就这样,船只轻了,可以轻身前行,度过难关继续前进。

这个王子的故事是马来西亚及新加坡的历史故事之一,读过的人很多,只是我们没有由故事学到一些道理。

放弃并不可惜,保留生命才最有意义


这一波的金融海啸所带来的影响是前所未有,因为许多有财富的人将财富交由信用卓越的信托单位与债券公司如雷曼兄弟等公司打理,但是下场可悲,所有财富泡汤了,也就是说一生的努力化为乌有。那绝对可以说是人生的一大悲痛,想想,多少人一生所追求的便是百万、千万财富,到头来,一无所有,生不带来死不带去!

每一次的金融风暴对中等收入者的打击是较为严重,富有者较少受灾害,不过这一波的悲痛是席卷了太多的富有人家,全球中有太多富有者受波及,牵涉之广,至今尚难去估计!

笑迎明天

金融海啸将为大家带来前所未有的新挑战,悲观永远解决不了问题,只有自信,勇敢挑起来担子,在这个压力重重的今天,寻求一条生路。你的勇气,乐观将可以

扭转乾坤迎新岁
再接再厉接福年

请记得:路是人走出来的,桥是人造的,生机也是一样。成也好,败也罢,方法,计划看自己的决心,智慧和团队的不放弃精神。

新年脚步近,不管心情如何, 年还是要过,打开心胸迎接牛年吧!谨以此文祝贺 大家扭转乾坤,安心迎接新岁。
(作者:李甜福 . e-mail:gorevictorlee@hotmail.com )


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一年後回想 不重要的不做

經濟學人》有一篇有趣的文章叫「New-year irresolution」,道出「新年決志」的不可靠。譬如說不少人以「減肥」、「每日做運動」為新一年的目標,可是大部分人要不一拖再拖,要不止堅持幾個星期便放棄。天下間最難克服的,是自己的惰性。

想起幾個月前看過一本書,叫《In Pursuit of Elegance》,作者提了一個問題,頗讓我醍醐灌頂:

假如你得到一筆橫財但只剩下10年性命,你會做甚麼——更明確的是,你不會再做甚麼?

會否繼續上班,但拒絕開會?抑或維持一定工作量,但不再應酬?不會做的事可能還有許多,因為我們有太多「大計」,都是違心的,例如閱讀不愛的書籍、告別沒有將來的愛情、報考MBA……

拒絕也是專注

這本書鼓勵簡化人生,體驗小即是美。作者引述蘋果電腦喬布斯08年接受《財富》雜誌訪問的一番話指,人們以為專注就是認為對的便甚麼都做,但這並非完全正確,因為專注同時代表拒絕看來許多不錯的想法。喬布斯說:「我為我們決定做的事驕傲,但也為我們決定不做的事而驕傲。」一語道破取捨的重要。

在剛過去的假期我還看了一本新書叫《開除自己的總經理》,作者叫王文華,他是台灣人,寫過暢銷的兩性小說,也是擁有史丹福大學MBA的企業家。有一年,他同時經歷父親離世與忽然竄紅文壇,極端的體驗使他反思每天營營役役的價值是甚麼,居然想出了個「一年後原則」:

一年後回想 不重要的不做

「凡是在一年後回想起來不重要的會,別參加。一年後回想起來不重要的約,別去。一年後回想起來不在意的氣,別生。一年後回想起來會後悔的事,別做。」

生活實在太多紛擾。我們每天埋首於太多看來重要的事,卻忽略了規劃自己的人生,結果總是在不想做的事中間打轉。或許在新的一年,暫停立下甚麼「要做」的目標(一年後你還在意嗎?),著手減少「不做」的事更好吧。

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Sunday, March 7, 2010

OPEN secret for all Malaysians.....really shameful!

If you cross the North Korean border illegally
You get 12 years hard labour.

If you cross the Iranian border illegally
You will be jailed indefinitely.

If you cross the Afghan border illegally
You will be shot.

If you cross the Chinese border illegally
You will never be heard from again.

If you are Indonesian and cross the Malaysian border illegally you will get......

MyPR (Permanent Residence status/Pemastautin Tetap)
A driving licence maybe a taxi driver's licence if you like.
Voting rights
Job reservation
Eventual Bumiputra status
Subsidised rent or loans to buy a house
Free education
Free healthcare
Total acceptance as "one of us"

http://niamah.blogspot.com/2010/03/quite-funny.html

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

After the al-kisah katak, then come the nightmare for Barisan Najis......tonnes of nightmare are arriving for BN





After the al-kisah katak, then come the nightmare for Barisan Najis......tonnes of nightmare are arriving for BN !

CONGRATULATIONS!

THOUSAND THANKS!

FOR MAKING BARISAN NASIONAL AS FROG HUT---BARISAN NAKATAK!!!!!

barisan nak katak!!!!

barisan nasional adalah parti yang terulung dan "nenek moyang/ pelopor" yang menggalkkan lompatan parti atau lompatan katak,khususnya parti Gerakan sejak tahun 1970!

barisan nak katak sentiasa ingin lebih katak menyertainya!

HONEST IS THE BEST POLICY........

30年前,美國華盛頓一個商人的妻子,在一個冬天的晚上,不慎把一個皮包丟在一家醫院裡。商人焦急萬分,連夜去找。因為皮包內不僅有10萬美金,還有一份十分機密的市場信息。

當商人趕到那家醫院時,他一眼就看到,清冷的醫院走廊裡, 靠牆蹲著一個凍得瑟瑟發抖的瘦弱女孩,在她懷中緊緊抱著的正是妻子丟的那個皮包。這個叫希亞達的女孩,
是來這家醫院陪病重的媽媽治病的。 相依為命的娘兒倆家裡很窮,賣了所有能賣的東西,湊來的錢還是僅夠一個晚上的醫療費。沒有錢明天就得被趕出醫院。

晚上,無能為力的希亞達在醫院走廊裡徘徊,她天真地想求上帝保佑,能碰上一個好心的人救救她的媽媽。 突然,一個從樓上下來的婦人經過走廊時, 腋下的一個皮包掉在地上,可能是她腋下還有別的東西,皮包掉了竟毫無知覺。當時走廊裡只有希亞達一個人。 她走過去撿起皮包,急忙追出門外,但 那位 女士卻上了一輛轎車揚長而去。
希亞達回到病房,當她打開那個皮包時,娘倆都被裡面成沓的鈔票驚呆了。那一刻,她們心裡明白,用這些錢可能治好媽媽的病。媽媽卻讓希亞達把皮包送回走廊去,等丟皮包的人回來領取。

雖然商人盡了最大的努力,希亞達的媽媽還是拋下了孤苦伶仃的女兒。後來商人就領養這個失怙的女孩。 她們母女不僅幫商人挽回了10萬美元的損失,更主要的是那份失而復得的市場信息,使商人的生意如日中天,不久就成了大富翁。被商人領養的希亞達,讀完大學就協助富翁料理商務。雖然富翁一直沒委任她任何實際職務,但在長期的歷練中, 富翁的智慧和經驗潛移默化地影響了她,使她成了一個成熟的商業人才。到富翁晚年時,他的很多想法都要徵求希亞達的意見。

富翁臨危之際,留下這樣的一份遺囑:「在我認識希亞達母女之前我就已經很有錢了。可當我站在貧病交加卻拾巨款而不昧的母女面前,我發現她們最富有, 因為她們恪守著至高無上的人生準則, 這正是我作為商人最缺少的。我的錢幾乎都是爾虞我詐、明爭暗鬥得來的,是她們使我領悟到人生最大的資本是品行。 我收養希亞達既不為知恩圖報,也不是出於同情,而是請了一個做人的楷模。有她在我的身邊,生意場上我會時刻銘記,哪些該做,哪些不該做,什麼錢該賺, 什麼錢不該賺。這就是我後來的業績興旺發達的根本原因,我成了億萬富翁。 我死後,我的億萬資產全部留給希亞達繼承。這不是饋贈,而是為了我的事業能更加輝煌昌盛。我深信,我聰明的兒子能夠理解爸爸的良苦用心。」

富翁在國外的兒子回來時,仔細看完父親的遺囑,立刻毫不猶豫地在財產繼承協議書上簽了字:「我同意希亞達繼承父親的全部資產。只請求希亞達能做我的夫人。」希亞達看完富翁兒子的簽字,略一沉思,也提筆簽了字:「我接受先輩留下的全部財產──包括他的兒子。」


「誠實人必多得福。」


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AL-KISAH KATAK! THE STORY OF FROGS





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Home Dr. Lim Teck Ghee Tyranny of the M’sian bureaucracy
Tyranny of the M’sian bureaucracy
CPI Writings
Written by Dr Lim Teck Ghee
Friday, 26 February 2010 13:14

During the last few days we have had two clear examples of how tyrannical and vicious the Malaysian bureaucracy can be, and how unyielding it is to any reform measures or initiatives. This Mr Hyde side of the Malaysian bureaucracy is not the usual dark side that the Malaysian public is familiar with – one associated with inefficiency, laziness, poor service, abuse of power or corruption.

It is one that is part and parcel of the hidden racially-charged context of our institutions and it smacks of the ideology of Malay dominance – or even Malay supremacy – that the civil service has come to personify. This is the dark side that is generally kept away from public scrutiny and accountability, not only because it runs against the grain of what a modern, progressive and representative civil service is, but also because it is regarded as politically incorrect to discuss or analyze it.

The first example appeared just two weeks ago when a courageous whistleblower, Dr Selvaa Vathany, a doctor from the Orang Asli Affairs Department (JHEOA) Hospital, Gombak made startling claims of rampant malpractice, misappropriation of resources and other wrongdoings by the hospital staff and associated agencies of government dealing with the Orang Asli.

Dr Selvaa is not your ordinary whistleblower. Providing details on the importance of healthcare and medical assistance for the Orang Asli – their children are 15 times more likely to die from malnourishment compared to other children – she revealed that for entire communities “essentials given out are limited to one to two bottles of cooking oil, six to eight tins of canned food, two packets of 400g Milo, 15 to 20 small packets of milk powder, 10 to 20 diapers, two bottles of detergent and 10 to 20 pairs of slippers, per visit. These are distributed at random …. If the villagers are lucky, distribution could be as frequent as once in every two to three months”.

She noted that “a tin of infant milk is divided into six small packets with 15 to 20 packets distributed to a village of between 250 to 500 people”.

All of this is strong circumstantial evidence that resources meant for Orang Asli communities are hijacked, possibly by the very people entrusted with the responsibility of distributing them to these vulnerable groups.

In her press conference, she also pointed to an institutional defect in which individuals without medical training and incapable of following Health Ministry protocols and standards were made hospital administrators and were appointed from the Rural and Regional Development Ministry.

Most tellingly, she pointed to an extensive cover-up of the scandal with little or no follow-up to the complaints made to the Prime Minister’s Department, Rural and Regional Development Ministry, Health Ministry, Chief Secretary, Public Service Department and Malaysian Anti-Corruption Commission (MACC).

The only follow-up that has taken place appears to have been the thuggish and unacceptable response of the team from the Rural and Regional Development Ministry who “questioned the complaint… made by the Orang Asli in an unprofessional manner”, and threatened and attempted to intimidate them.

For her professionalism and integrity in speaking out on behalf of a marginalized and impoverished community, Dr Selvaa is now being transferred to Kedah where presumably she will be left to rot and to rue her courageous challenge of the status quo.

Outsiders controlling the Orang Asli

The second example also relates to the Orang Asli and it concerns the response of the Orang Asli Affairs Department to the demand for increased representation at the management level in government agencies formed to handle Orang Asli affairs.

According to the group raising these concerns, the JHEOA is staffed by over-80 percent non-Orang Asli, resulting in decisions not favourable to their needs and the marginalization of Orang Asli voices in important policies that affect their livelihoods.

This is not the first time that such concerns have been raised. During the past 50 years we have had a constant stream of written petitions, memoranda, press statements, expert reports and academic work that have drawn attention to the way in which the government has violated the basic rights of the Orang Asli and analyzed how the JHEOA and associated government agencies have been the main instruments for control and repression of the community.

In response, the Government has simply ignored them or opted for delaying tactics.

In this particular instance, in typical foot-dragging response, the department’s Director-General Mohd Sani Mistram said that the group should have gone through the “proper channels” to air their grievances and that it was an “internal matter” between the Orang Asli and the department.

Both these cases – the punishment meted out to a whistleblower and the cold shoulder treatment of legitimate Orang Asli grievances – epitomize how dangerous it is for our democratic system to remain silent or passive in the face of an increasingly out of touch and unrepresentative civil service. They are the tip of the iceberg of many unexposed and undisclosed abuses that needs to be put in the spotlight of public scrutiny.

At the end of the day, the most effective public scrutiny that can realistically have an immediate impact on these cases of rogue individuals and agencies of the civil service that are throttling the Orang Asli is that coming from Malay intelligentsia and Malay civil society.

Indeed, some Malay colleagues have shown goodwill in helping the Orang Asli to correct some of the “historical injustices” that have been perpetrated on the original inhabitants of the Peninsula. It could make a difference if Malay leaders are willing to take up the case of Dr Selvaa and stop her victimization by the Ministry of Rural and Regional Development.

At the same time, more Malaysians of conscience need to step up to the plate if the Orang Asli community is to regain their rightful place in the country.

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RobertLing |2010-02-26

It is really sad and certainly depressing to know that those that were employed to look after our very poor are siphoning away the very neccesities required by these poor and helpless orang asli.

These civil servants have enriched themselves but in the end they had caused a whole generation of orang asli to be suffering from malnutrition and on the brink of death due to their greed.

They had lost the trust of the nation and do not deserved to be retained in the civil service.

Only the brave and the principled dare to expose the wrongdoings. Perhaps, there need to be a total revamp of the JHEOA and to be staffed by the orang asli themselves.

We can only hear denial after denial and the Orang Asli affairs department director and his subordinates denying such wrongdoings. This is a hallmark of our civil service and government.

Similar incidents are happening in Sarawak and Sabah and come elections the government of the day will try to make up and spruce longhouses and rebuild damaged ones.

Who are they trying to hoodwinked.

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Samuel Goh Kim Eng - Bureaucrats Who Drive People Crazy |2010-02-26

BUREAUCRATS WHO DRIVE PEOPLE CRAZY

There are some within the bureaucracy
Who will drive people they serve crazy
Not just because they are openly lazy
But with self-interests are kept busy

(C) Samuel Goh Kim Eng - 260210
http://MotivationInMotion.blogspot.com
Fr i. 26th Feb. 2010.

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nxforget |2010-02-26

There't no money to be made or political mileage to be made.

Otherwise, vultures will swarm in to offer all kind of assistance.

Whistleblower is the victim ... as always to cover weakness and wrongdoing.

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Gpeace |2010-02-26

Thank you Dr. Lim for this very informative and direct-to-the-point article which should help to wake up the Malaysian public to the malpractices by the government departments and agencies, such as Prime Minister’s Department, Rural and Regional Development Ministry, Health Ministry, Chief Secretary, Public Service Department and Malaysian Anti-Corruption Commission (MACC), whose salaries are being paid by us. The Orang Asli are the true Bumiputras of Malaysia (unlike the other groups who are "pendatang" Bumis) whose rights have been hijacked by the "false" Bumis. These real Bumis, instead of being treated with due respect like the other tax payers, are instead being bullied by the corrupted civil servants who are supposed to serve them, and our government conveniently turns a blind eye to all these wrong doings.

Furthermore, the whistle-blower, instead of being promoted for doing a good job according to her conscience, has been punished by being transferred to a rural area and "cold storaged."

It is time for all right thinking Malaysians, irrespective of race or gender, to rise up together as an effective mass to boot out these corrupted civil servants, including the number one civil servant, the present PM of Malaysia.

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Idris Jala - Aboriginal people's rights |2010-02-26

and mahathir says that Australia is neglecting its indigenous people's rights when the situation is far worse at home.

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ygbenor - Rot to its core |2010-02-26

I am really worried the state of affair in Malaysia. Its going to rot to the core very soon as long as UMNO/ BN rules te country. The above articles proves it is going to the gutter.

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Nobody |2010-02-26

All natives are being exploited. the Orang Asli in West Malaysia and the natives of Borneo in Sarawak and Sabah.

Hail BN, the Nazis of the 21st century.

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gorilla - i m not blind |2010-02-26

tunggu general election

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Joea |2010-02-26

Like the Australian, UMNO wants to exterminate the orang alsi n steal their land.

I jusy hope that the orang asli will get very. very mad n use their blowpipe on those scumbags.

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Azli Othman |2010-02-26

We need more whistle blowers to expose corruption and mismanagement. Billions of taxpayer's money could be saved if we can reduce mismanagement and inefficiency.
But Malaysians don't seem to give a hoot on how their taxes are being misspent.

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Sam |2010-02-26

The UMNO and UMNO-linked Malays have become an ugly race. They have forgotten their culture. They are in the civil service -police, macc, ag chambers, the judiciary etc. Sin is their name.
They might even tell the Orang Asli to get out of the country if they are not happy living in this country.

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Al Tugauw - Malayan (UMNO Malay) Bureaucracy |2010-02-26

This is typical Malayan (UMNO Malay) bureaucracy masquerading as "Malaysian". They have hijacked and subverted all branches of government, trashed state and minority indigenous rights, empowered and enriched themselves at the people's expense and generally mistreated everyone else except themselves, abused their positions, etc. They will only stop when a general uprising of a fed-up populace holds them and their political masters to account.

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Azizi Khan - Compassion |2010-02-27

I think its utterly disgraceful for the so called compassionate Muslim Malays to treat the real Bumiputra with contempt. This is the hypocrisy in Malaysia today. The Malays in government preach Islam but none follow it. Its all a matter of technicality. You show the world how you pray five times a day but in reality the actions do not portray a true Muslim.

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KHOO SUAT CHIN - Tyranny of the M’sian bureaucracy |2010-02-27

Can't understand why these people in power are without compassion and do not feel guilty for the wrong doinng

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Hamidun Abdullah - Tyranny of the M’sian bureaucracy |2010-02-27

I have written a short article on this attitudes of the Malays. My article can be read at www.scribd.com with the title "Melayu & Islam". This is the type of attitude and behaviour that gave Islam the bad name. Thought my examples were a bit general, yours have is very specific.
These people involves were Malays and they also called themselves Muslims. But their behaviour and attitudes are far from being Islamic. But unfortunately Islam gets the bad name.
They chant the praise of the Prophet s.a.w. but they never practice what the Prophet s.a.w. preached.

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dida |2010-02-27

there are the bumis and there are the BUMIs.

it's almost like Hitler's Germany - purification by eradication

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soul survivor - CHANGE in the name of Allah |2010-02-27

Allah is Most Great!umno will die for all their misdeeds to us malaysians and our orangasli!truth shall surface!change is near and clear.umno can do whatever evil deeds as they want but it will stop.umno plans but Allah has His plan too and who is the better planner!...tik,tik,tik,tik,tik...BOOM!!

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